@Amylase then go write your own fiction that fits your definition of ok. I don't really think its as bad as you fear it is. Women's worst enemy is always other women. Folks having sexual desires is natural. Some folks don't have any. Its whatever. Its not the male gaze, at worst its the "Sexual...
male gaze is such a dumb term. folks who like girls like pretty much the same things in girls. just stop. its demeaning to insinuate lesbian and bisexual women like me can't have lewd thoughts or enjoy lewd things. we aren't some sort of pure angels.