I love the blue haired priest. She won’t end up with him, because the MC never ends up with the long haired priest. Maybe a short haired knight-priest, but never the pretty boy one. It is a pet peeve for me. I like the long haired bishounen priests in high fantasy.
I think her original earth values are running into her new Elysian values and making her reasoning a mess. I love the harem though. Not enough things have true reverse harems, even though there are tons of true harems. Women can enjoy reading about having a sexy harem too.