.....that was awkward and painful to read at the start. It physically hurt me
Now? I'm not sure how read that last statement. Could be as a lover. A child. A pet. Fuck if I know. But fuckjng christ, be an ADULT!
You took several hours to rephrase your statement and the moment she tries to pull...
There are so many red flags
1. The dad is a complete asshole. Border line narcissist. He ostracized his own son because he wanted to spend more time with his wife? TELL YOUR FUCKING SON. Don't just kick him out
2. He told complete lies anytime his OWN MOTHER wanted to know anything of him...