@Papercraftt
I know where you come from - it's like this for the most of the people.
There are so many mangas where a guy sleeps with a lot of girls and the society finds it fine, but when it's the other way around then its not alright... That's a sign that we live in a patriarchal world... ;p...
@Dreamingflower @QueenKittyKat
All the reincarnation/revenge/villainess stories are based off of otome games, and all those have a heroine that is "a girl like you and me" which means they are either a commoner or in best case made baron daughter... Kind of Cinderella principle... That's the canon.