@Kuroww What? Traumas that are formed in childhood are things that many times are carried to adulthood. Imagine if it was you, you were being bullied and your mother didn't believe you, and instead thought you were the one bullyibg, do you think you would be much better than her?
I'm tired, i am real fucking tired with this fucking mindset that getting involved with someone that is engaged is being the heroine and that not wanting to see your fiancee with another woman is being the villainess, "Oh, but the villainess is violent and mean, and she should not resort to...