I mean, you reap what you sow, I'm not saying that is OK to ostracize or making "a desprestige campaign" towards someone, is not OK no matter who shitty the person is, but she can't either have the cake and eat it, you can't just pretend that nobody should care about anything, that she goes...
It wasn't meant to be, not at least right now but to my seem Gon at the very least deserved a face to face rejection, his initial reaction might not be the appropriate one (neither the wrong one) but at the very least he deserved to be told at his face by her that it wasn't going to work because...
Is easy to say that Gon is a wuss but that's alot to take, I mean, one minute you're this guy dating a girl you like and then you intend to be serious with her and just like that literally she drops you that bomb, I'm not saying that she was unfair, I'm not saying that Gon had a bad reaction, is...