The best way out of the situation with the dude is to scream and go running out the room while yelling "help a pervert snuck through the girl's dorm window!!"
@Alexa201, I think Estrella is actually the oldest princess. The dumpster castle was far too torn apart for merely being neglected for 7+ years. Since her mother's clan is immortal, dies if they are forgotten or give birth via outsider blood, it seems likely that the birth and pregnancy isn't...