@lordWololo
There are also reverse harem, I would give you a fair chance if all harems were male ones, reality is that there are lots and lots of reverse harem stories or pseudo reverse harem stories like this one, even if doesn't have the harem tag.
I can count with my fingers how many harems I have seen ending like true harems, 1 male with plenty of women, it is almost impossible to find one.
Each time I see romance,drama,tragedy,manhua,manwha or more of that shit, I know it's gonna be a bunch of simping men competing for the dumb women, and if the ML wasn't simping enough, the rivals are even more simpers and don't know when to give up, because the FL is always seeming like she likes the competition they have for her, she never says, sorry, be gone,I'm already in love, you have no chances with me, and if they said it (very few cases), the ML rival still doesn't give up.
While if I see few of the manga/manwha/manhua with several males and women competing for both MC, the male always solves the issues quickly, you never see the FL rival craving for the ML during all the series, because the ML quickly solves the problem and says, enough is enough, I'm still trying to find a FL, who isn't dumb as hell and establishes things without having to create shitty rivalry and overused drama, just something where they have a complex stories without a ML rival occupying the plot for half of the chapters of that serie/manga.
And there is always NTR, like those "stolen kisses", I hate that shit.