@Phantoxic basically i guess, i mean ,it's a bit different  cause aside from just seducing  any useful woman solely  for sex he's also literally  using them as  expendable materials 
while she's generally pretty  faithful and  serious about mc  and  hasn't really even  laid her hands on him  putting aside  just caring about him immensely 
and she does seriously think she loves him and that this is acceptable with love  but even with all that, yeah,
the mind control thing is  still the same f**ed up thing, maybe even more so because  her goal is something she really could just go for without all that crap and maybe some of it really is just born out of her thinking she's a girl
i think the author definitely will punish her  for the charm and will absolutely put him off it,  he's  made  pretty  clear that this charm stuff is the most f**ked up part of her  otherwise decent,  if self-inflated personality
wow, this really sounds like i empathize with her or something lol , she's  a  worthless piece of crap  for  doing this but  i mean she's  still better than this newly introduced crap, whether as a guy or a girl,  though  they  definitely are  similar in  some awful ways,
 it'll be cool when notices that tho
being all like" i'm calling it love and justifying it but i'm really not that different from this monster /manwhore,"