@nomadicengi Ah, pretty much as here in Latin America then. By "independence" I mean autonomy, not Anglo style "I don't need nobody!" isolation.
Family gatherings are also a big thing here, and if you're able to cook it's yet another thing your (present or future) nuclear family can rely on you with, and this works for both men and women.
spearbro isn't bad, hes just kinda stupid. maybe hes had all those relationships not because hes a chad but because hes a himbo and girls play him on that. smh can't even catch a break the second he gets isekai'd he gets pulled into a bs relationship