He called her toxic yet his first action towards her was violent when seeing she overheard his conversation. It was in a public space and anyone could have walked in. Him blocking her against the wall, yelling threats, and banging the wall will never be thought as appropriate.
Why is it so hard to be taken seriously when you are female and don’t want kids? You may change your mind in the future, really? Some people, females included, just don’t want a kid. It’s that simple.