It seems like what the characters are all saying is, "sure yeah, love and all... but other stuff, you know that's just way more important".
It's such bullshit. I think at this point these people they claim to have feelings for are just not important to them, because if they were they would move heaven and earth to be with them. Instead we get, "it's inconvenient for us so, why bother". I would have told all these people to go fuck themselves and never talk to me about their "feelings" again until they get serious.