Main character is not so smart. There's a girl who he gets along with as a friend, who is attractive, who is into him, and he goes for a girl who barely knows him and really isn't interested. I mean come on.
No idea what the people are talking about re: the gender stuff in this being old-fashioned. It's like, introductory stuff. Like how you learn addition before you learn multiplication. It's a 'what if' more so than anything else, and probably works very well to give people a basic idea of how...
FINALLY some smut without really questionable consent. I mean, not that being drunk is much better than straight-up no consent, but I'll take what I can get.