NTR and isekai, both are different flavors of power fantasy. Which one is more infuriating? Depends on you. Do people feel inadequate and thus like power fantasies? Yes, and that's normal. But people that swear and live by it? Maybe take a step back from whatever you're reading and git gud.
Anyways, happy waifu happy laifu. And get yourself a person that makes you yummy foods. A meal so revitalizing that Chihiro is shining by the end of it.