I'm not the only one who dislikes the part of NTR that disparages the person being cucked right? Like the lengths they go to where for some reason they need to emasculate the other individual or give him a "small dick".
I mean i just generally don't like disparaging comments and attitudes. It kills the mood. Somehow the rapist calling the victim a whore is what makes me lose respect for them. Like there is no need for that and it just makes the rapist look like a little bitch.
Anyway i get that people like ugly bastard or other insulting stuff, but it just doesn't make any sense to me. I mean maybe its just because i don't have an insecurity complex or something but "dirty talk" just confuses me. Ugly badtard characters are also 99% just Disney styled sterotypes to show how evil and wrong the character is.
In vanilla, (at least) two people are happy, and the only sad person is me, the lonely virgin reading it. In NTR, (at least) two people are happy, but there's likely an additional sad person, the cheated-on.
The point for those who enjoy it, as I've asked this question you just did before in the circles I run, is that they're imagining themselves as the male victim (husband/boyfriend/brother/son), and they're typically the sort who get off on being degraded. It's kind of the point of cuckold porn. Apparently you can have it without, depending on taste, but it seems by and large it's that someone who you'd normally think less of is a more aggressive and better sexual match for your emotionally-close woman whose support and attention you rely on. Usually by the end of these situations the woman is either openly or quietly completely enthralled by the dumb, ugly, vicious villain with a huge dick, bigger muscles, and less likely to treat her like she's made of porcelain - for most women who like the same porn, the position they tend to try and feel out is obvious (there's also cuckqueaning for those looking for a similar role as the previously mentioned degraded male). For that to be the case, the male victim has to be relatively puny and not willing to be experimental or assertive. Thus it becomes circular, and oddly enough complete.
Like, you're not supposed to think of yourself as the guy barging in, that asshole Chad who's either super ugly or the guy's boss. You're not supposed to respect him at all. He's just the "assertive element" that turns the tables on the aforementioned puny, submissive guy.