The perfect crunch. Music to mine ears. And she has the perfect alibi. Man, I wish that last part weren't necessary, it being perfectly deserved and all...
Re: The discussion of her brother, the worst thing is it's entirely possible that he thinks he has her best interests at heart. That it's part of his responsibility to "take care of her". In much the same way that our protagonist thinks she has to take care of her daughters, reallyโexcept in his case with a dose of casual assholery, completely disregarding the will and self-determination of the person in question... Systemic sexism is a bitch.