has lived an excruciating life filled with pain and feeling like a leech, a life that was clearly the type of misery is not possible to opt out of (eg she's not like the bullied kid or the negligent dad, she's just painfully ill)...MC still micdrops her pointed, gotcha question and leaves with a disgusted lol on her face.
The narrative's phrasing highly suggests the woman is projecting and her family didn't think that. But like... Why does that matter? This is where it feels especially kind of shallow.
I hope it's rectified at the conclusion, but there's this heavy handed strawmanning going on, one that heavily implies only a pathetic coward wouldn't want to live REAL life. That strawmanning is barely tolerable for the NEETs and the characters who simply refuse to move on in their lives, desperately hoping to grasp what they lost, wishing for second chances - but that feels misplaced/forced when it collides with reasoning that isn't childish. Responding to someone who is in that level of permanent, neverending pain with "well wouldn't your family miss you" is the kind of thing they tell you not to do. It's not even a deep question! It's the thing anyone who isn't thinking very hard asks when they first encounter someone who doesn't want to live - what about everyone else? - As if it's selfish of the sick to not wish to continue their agony simply because other people want them to.