making a Woman wait for you to marry her in 4 to 5 years because currently your not man enough to be her husband.
that is the most painful thing I have ever heard, that hot woman is already giving her everything to you and your still selfish enough that your asking her to wait out until you grow some balls,
god these Japs and Koreans are awful, no wonder their marriage/birth rate is gone down since all they think about is enjoying their youth and never growing up.
its just painful.