With how much of their media consist of yuri and yaoi, even in works outside the genre, it can be abit surprising for anyone who aren't aware of Japenese culture, that gay marriage isn't legalized or recognized before some western countries.
lol sometimes what we thought was important in a partner ends up being irrelevant if you meet someone you have good chemistry with, sometimes you can just get along with them.
Dont get it twisted though its easier to get along with someone that shares your interests, the whole opposites attract is mostly bogus.