She calls it undesired intercourse and says she didn't want it. Rape is still rape even if you rape the person you're married to, and no, you don't get excuses for being jealous. I could let the rest of his behavior slide under the term of 'misunderstandings' but that was not acceptable and should not be shuffled under the rug. (not to mention the 'no sex because she's too weak for a baby' and then him immediately jumping to him getting her pregnant..)