Ahh, yeah. Got it now. I wish you and your partner the best of luck, @crescentfreshh.
Does anyone actually have a childhood friend with an unrequited love relationship?
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One thing I always wondered about that's mildly off topic, are the strange and random confessions in anime. The ones where someone confesses their feelings to someone, despite never talking to them before. I mean, that can't happen in real life Japan, right? If you did that in America, you'd likely get a puzzled; or possibly creeped out look. Well, at least if the recipient was a woman that is. There are of course certain men who wouldn't be bothered by a random confession, if the woman was attractive; although, those definitely aren't the ones you want to date.
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Once, when I was in middle school, a guy that I had never saw, asked me out of nowhere ,to by his friend.
He literally said"Do you want to be my friend?"
I give him my "What the fuck are you talking about" stare and walked away.
He tried again some days later accompanied with another guy.
I say "no" with my head and walked away.
My theories are:
1/ He was an award kids who wanted to become my friend because I was the coolest Dude of the school.
2/ His sister fall under my irresistible charm like every other girl of the school and send her brother to make the first contact because she was too scared to approach me herself, because I was so smart ,sexy and cool.
3/ Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy
He literally said"Do you want to be my friend?"
I give him my "What the fuck are you talking about" stare and walked away.
He tried again some days later accompanied with another guy.
I say "no" with my head and walked away.
My theories are:
1/ He was an award kids who wanted to become my friend because I was the coolest Dude of the school.
2/ His sister fall under my irresistible charm like every other girl of the school and send her brother to make the first contact because she was too scared to approach me herself, because I was so smart ,sexy and cool.
3/ Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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I got my first confession from my childhood friend, when I was 5 y.o.
I didn’t really know what love was, or that confessions needed to be answered...
Nor did I had any idea what dating was, or a boyfriend!
Lol
I didn’t even had enough memory to remember my newfound KG’s friends’ names over the summer vacation, so this was pretty normal for me.
Haha, when I did understand, I felt pretty bad tho
Although at the time (of confession)I was really happy! I started writing a diary when I was 5, so the events are clear as day. But the very next day he asked me to forget all about it
I was just left speechless. And my dairy was discovered by my whole family! And that too on the next day of my confession, before I wrote that day’s entry.
I was just so embarrassed! And I hadn’t even done anything (at least that’s what I thought, probably broke the poor guy’s heart by not answering, hence him taking it back
)
I was always in the same class as him from when we were 5 till 10 y.o. And kept meeting when we got to separate classes till around 13. By then I’ve developed a crush, but still couldn’t understand my own feelings. By the time I got to understand them a little, it was too late- we were already strangers now.
Or so I thought, then someone familiar smiled and waved at me at the premiere of last Harry Potter movie! I couldn’t recognise him then. My cousin pulled me off and I got distracted, only to remember a moment later it was HIM! I looked around for him, and couldn’t find him any longer (was 15 or 16 yo then). Such a disappointment, didn’t even greet him
The there was this one time we by chance may at school, we were both with our own groups of friends, of course we couldn’t keep them waiting, but this time I greeted him, he said “hi” too. And then we stared at each other, saying nothing. Seemed like time stopped, but what a disappointment, it actually didn’t!
His friend called him, that broke our trance from just silently staring at each-other (yes, apparently, this doesn’t only happen in movies and stuff). He responded and then my friends called me & I bashfully ran away that time.
That was the last time our paths crossed! My life has turned upside down from then! I’m not the girl I used to be! He probably won’t even like me now, as I am
, but that’s if I have a chance, he probably has a girlfriend or a wife already! I have no way to really find out, and even if I do it’ll only be painful, but I sure hope he’s alive!
I didn’t really know what love was, or that confessions needed to be answered...
Nor did I had any idea what dating was, or a boyfriend!
Lol
I didn’t even had enough memory to remember my newfound KG’s friends’ names over the summer vacation, so this was pretty normal for me.Haha, when I did understand, I felt pretty bad tho
Although at the time (of confession)I was really happy! I started writing a diary when I was 5, so the events are clear as day. But the very next day he asked me to forget all about it
I was just left speechless. And my dairy was discovered by my whole family! And that too on the next day of my confession, before I wrote that day’s entry.
I was just so embarrassed! And I hadn’t even done anything (at least that’s what I thought, probably broke the poor guy’s heart by not answering, hence him taking it back
)I was always in the same class as him from when we were 5 till 10 y.o. And kept meeting when we got to separate classes till around 13. By then I’ve developed a crush, but still couldn’t understand my own feelings. By the time I got to understand them a little, it was too late- we were already strangers now.
Or so I thought, then someone familiar smiled and waved at me at the premiere of last Harry Potter movie! I couldn’t recognise him then. My cousin pulled me off and I got distracted, only to remember a moment later it was HIM! I looked around for him, and couldn’t find him any longer (was 15 or 16 yo then). Such a disappointment, didn’t even greet him
The there was this one time we by chance may at school, we were both with our own groups of friends, of course we couldn’t keep them waiting, but this time I greeted him, he said “hi” too. And then we stared at each other, saying nothing. Seemed like time stopped, but what a disappointment, it actually didn’t!
His friend called him, that broke our trance from just silently staring at each-other (yes, apparently, this doesn’t only happen in movies and stuff). He responded and then my friends called me & I bashfully ran away that time.
That was the last time our paths crossed! My life has turned upside down from then! I’m not the girl I used to be! He probably won’t even like me now, as I am
, but that’s if I have a chance, he probably has a girlfriend or a wife already! I have no way to really find out, and even if I do it’ll only be painful, but I sure hope he’s alive!
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Damn. Compraed to you guys my life is really uneventful. And i don't mind tbh
I have one childhood friend. I care about her a lot but not in a romantic way. We've known each other for almost 20 years but nothing happened. I talk to her like I would talk to any of my friends. Sometimes if I can I even try to introduce her to some of my friends.
I had a little onee x shota moment in my life. Well kinda. I was 6 or 7 and she was around 13. She would always come and greet me with joy and then hug me. Even when she was talking to her friends she would pause just for that. Made me feel special ngl. She would always said to her friends "This is insert name here ! I love that kid he's so cute!". Dunno how much she meant it but I was too shy to say anything back. I saw her like 3 or 4 years later but it looked like she didn't remember me....Funny thing is while I was sad that she didn't remember me I couldn't remembr her name. I still can't. She was pretty tho.
There was also this girl back in elementary school who would kabedon me (Yep. Not the other way around) on a regular basis during breaks. She even tried (or managed ? Can't remember) to kiss me once. I was too weak to do anything. Not physically but mentally because I wasn't sure if I wanted it or not. Now that I think about it this is a little frightening. Anyway she disappeared the year after and I never heard from her since.
Now my life revolves around hanging out with my friends who always find the time even if some of them have gfs. I'll probably start to feel lonely when they all be too busy for me. But rn I'm good
I have one childhood friend. I care about her a lot but not in a romantic way. We've known each other for almost 20 years but nothing happened. I talk to her like I would talk to any of my friends. Sometimes if I can I even try to introduce her to some of my friends.
I had a little onee x shota moment in my life. Well kinda. I was 6 or 7 and she was around 13. She would always come and greet me with joy and then hug me. Even when she was talking to her friends she would pause just for that. Made me feel special ngl. She would always said to her friends "This is insert name here ! I love that kid he's so cute!". Dunno how much she meant it but I was too shy to say anything back. I saw her like 3 or 4 years later but it looked like she didn't remember me....Funny thing is while I was sad that she didn't remember me I couldn't remembr her name. I still can't. She was pretty tho.
There was also this girl back in elementary school who would kabedon me (Yep. Not the other way around) on a regular basis during breaks. She even tried (or managed ? Can't remember) to kiss me once. I was too weak to do anything. Not physically but mentally because I wasn't sure if I wanted it or not. Now that I think about it this is a little frightening. Anyway she disappeared the year after and I never heard from her since.
Now my life revolves around hanging out with my friends who always find the time even if some of them have gfs. I'll probably start to feel lonely when they all be too busy for me. But rn I'm good
