@PsychoJing I don't think anyone could disagree with using the term molest to describe their challenges.
Words can have pretty broad definitions but in this case, let's look at Merriam-websters primary definitions:
"to annoy, disturb, or persecute especially with hostile intent or injurious effect" & "to make annoying sexual advances"
I can confidently say if you are attempting to make anyone involuntarily moan through sexual contact it would be considered molestation.
@ErikMm I see your point of view, but I'm going to have disagree. When someone uses the word "molest" to describe a person actions ten out of ten times that person is 100% at fault, and the victim is 100% without fault. Regardless what webster's definitions say, I can't agree that this word accurately describes the situation.