Heavy petting is sex? No... No, I don't think so, Mrs. Witch. At least I can understand the argument with anal and oral, since at least the label is also referred to sex, but... a handjob is not sex. No one calls it "hand sex." Sure, it's sexual act, but it's not sex any more than masturbation is. And considering that chick has done it over 3,000 times without incident, it sounds okay by your book.