How Do We Relationship? - Ch. 17

[MangaDex]

 

[Rollo]

Yeah they're gonna end up breaking up because Saeko's dumber than a bag of hammers.

 

[guffynator]

One is too scared to talk and the other one is too scared to talk.

 

[Src5jaya]

Man, i think the cat will out of the bag and everyone knows about them.
Force come out, wonder how scared Miwa can take it?

 

[darara]

Unfortunately

 

[nims]

“is she crying? no i think that’s the beer” that line actually made me laugh out loud. Saeko is just being horrible right now, I feel bad for Miwa.

 

[idgi]

That was not the answer...

 

[furopoi]

i would totally understand how they break up if it ends up going that route. their emotional wiring is just so different

 

[FireOrchid]

Mikkun's the best character.

I think Saeko's just going to realize that denying your own jealousy is just going to make it worse. I don't think this is going to cause that big of a bump in their relationship.

 

[kojiro481]

It feels like AGES since the last time any of the characters in this were actually happy . Every chapter is just awkwardness, people not talking, angst,etc. I like that this manga is going for a more realistic approach and all but you need at least a little sunshine every other chapter for the dour moments to actually mean something you know ?

 

[icekatze]

If this were real life, I'd be using this as an example of why the saying "Opposites Attract," should not be used as relationship advice.

Also... if this were real life, I'd be a little bit concerned that Miwa is showing some early warning signs of depression.

 

[Purplelibraryguy]

@icekatze The opposites thing--I've seen it work, but it's certainly not something you should count on.

 

[OniBarubary]

It's fine to be loose or be really horny and like fucking all the time but Saeko is 100% using it as a replacement for intimacy because she doesn't know how else to express her affection than with sexual attention.

That shit hits a little too close to home

 

[Kekitus]

@icekatze I 100% agree with you. You need some kind of differences, but being polar opposites aren't meant to be together. For example if someone who is really super introvert start dating someone who is super extrovert then it's bound to create conflicts all the time. But at the same time if that extremely introvert person goes out with another extremely introvert person then the relationship can become unhealthy really fast. You need some kind of balance : too much of the same is not good, but too many differences isn't good either. I mean, it can work, but it will require massive efforts from both persons that can quickly tire you out.

Feelings alone aren't enough in a relationship. You need good compatibility. I think that's one of the most painful realization you make when you become an adult and you're looking for a more "long term" relationship : just because you love each other doesn't mean you're a good match.

EDIT : sorry kojiro481 if you somehow get pinged, I failed and mentioned the wrong person.

 

[sirflimflam]

Pretending you're not jealous is probably worse than openly being jealous. You just bottle it up until it explodes... Even this "lets fuck" thing Saeko's doing now. That's it starting to boil over. Is Miwa even in the frame of mind to do that kind of them when she's having this serious talk? Miwa has serious confidence issues and she's raising alarm bells and Saeko really is too stupid to see she's making some serious mistakes that a person in a better frame of mind might be able to dismiss, but Miwa isn't normal in that regard.

This is almost hard to read sometimes because it brings me back to my dating life 10 or so years ago. I dated a girl who had real confidence issues, and had been depressed for some time. The way Miwa acts often makes me think of her and it's easy for me to project the coming fallout.

 

[Filepool]

..so they're going to break up, yeah?

 

[Raknasuu]

NO. Make-up sex is never a solution. Is just a distraction. Makes you forget the real problem for a little while but then it comes up again.

Saeko, you've fucked up.

 

[tducouteau]

Rooting for ya, Miwa. The person who truly needs to change is Saeko. Communication is powerful. And, well, necessary in relationships. Just... jeez, you two!

 

[Raudhbjorn]

Aww...Saeko can't express her emotions. Boo!

 

[yurieureka]

C'mon, Saeko. Use your words, not your pelvis.