Gotta say, I have some questions about her first reincarnation. She supposedly had her memories since she was born, so how was it a grown adult was bullied by children? Why didn't she stand out and get recognized by the grandfather earlier the first time around? And if she was managing so much of the internal matters of the house for so a number of years, working directly under her grandfather, why would she let them continue to bully her into adulthood? Why didn't she set herself up with funds and more authority for when the next heir inevitably ruined the family as she knew they would, rather than apparently get kicked out with just a bag? Sure, the second time around she knows a bit more about the personalities and events that will be coming up, but her first life should have been considerably different.