I don't think you have to be his harem to have a status as a girl, it's just that she herself isn't in a position of power and usefulness. She isn't a powerhouse, isn't in a management position, and very likely to not have contributed anything of high relevance to the village at all. Considering everyone else, it's likely that her status is normal in the village since either everyone started before her, more power, or isn't essential to the village needs. Although, I would think her status would become higher as a spoke person for one of the villages.