@Tersione Of course, it was just that he was complaining about having a wife material around his house rather than not being able to see/hear her and thank her.
@Tersione A ghost that could drain your soul the moment it meets you while you could also do absolutely nothing or something making lunch for you and embracing you at night instead is something I don't know what to be afraid of. Like I'm not an expert of these things, but the moment you think about it, you would understand the signs. It's just that he may have skipped that thought train at first.
@HunLepto Yeah, it would be a pleasant surprise to suddenly have breakfast on my table without explanation, but it would be hard to see it in a purely positive light when it's tainted by the fact that I have no idea where it came from or who made it. I also have no idea what their goal is and whether they'll stay benevolent or change their mind later on. That might be what he thought of at first, and it's just his instincts doing their work.
@Tersione I personally learned that whenever something happens I don't understand, it's better to not panic as that only makes the situations worse and/or even make alot of misunderstanding. Also, basically talking shit about a friendly ghost is also what could make it change its mind. But yeah, generally people would act in a similiar way.