I know it's wrong to judge from your own personal perspective and vice versa. but the idea of having a "unique" portrait of romance is a bit baffling when in our generation, if someone mentioned romance/love, we all got the same idea of having a "two way only" route, not some like branches of science or tree or someshit that goes sideways and another and another etc. Anyone knows what's up if they desire something else beside you. and that's i think the difference of desire and love