Osananajimi ga Hisabisa ni Saikai Shitara Otagai Kyonyuu ni Natteta - Ch. 4

[Qwormuli]

@DrPavel So true it hurts. I agree with both sides here in part, but the way the points are made makes me want to slap everyone upside the head and disagree on principle.

...Oh, god, I'm one of those autists, aren't I?

 

[Rightey]

>Guy with muscles is a massive autist.
Yup seems like a true fitizen to me.

 

[Poifollower]

I don't really get what the are autist and fitizen thing you are saying about at all, not a member of the internet chatting group. Are those scientific terms for something?

 

[Pensive_WolF]

@Lucrecia

I'm a woman, I've only read this chapter, I'm not interested in reading the rest.

And you keep missing the focal point of the situation... this guy, the childhood friend (so, technically a person close to her and she trusts, not a complete stranger), went to see the girl IN HER DAMN HOUSE, and she let him in because she obviously trusts him. They weren't seen in the middle of a forecourt at night, in the park or in a dark alley. She's not the one who went looking for him, showing off who knows what kind of provocative attitude. He went into her house, saw her in a Tank top and shorts - which is very normal clothing, I would say - he got the bone to fly because she is beautiful and shapely, end of story.

But since to the reader's eyes it would have seemed only a filthy pig unable to keep it in his pants, the philharmony started on the fact that "the world is ugly, you're too defenseless, i says it to protect you"


Protecting her a big bullsh*t, is just a way to lighten his conscience by blaming the girl with an "oh, I told you that if you dress like that you risk provoking me. Then don't complain if I get my hands on you and r*pe you at some point, eh? "

I've always heard that if you walk on the highway, don't get surprised if you get hit by a truck. I love how women like to think they have no responsibility at all on a lot of things, but sorry to burst your bubble, if you are an adult you are almost always at least 49% the cause of what happens to you. If you were smart and able to have more foresight into what might happen, they the likely hood of bad things happening to you drop dramatically. She didn't walk into a dark alley or onto a highway, but she did let a person she hasn't seen in a very long time into her house, people can change with time, and bad things could happen to said people to change them completely. She could have easily trusted him a 4 year old way back then, but he could easily be a very different person as an adult, and it's foolish to just trust him like that so easily.

This is not victim blaming, this is common sense, and I'm tired of women getting off easy pretending like no one should expect them to have any.

TLDR;
We are all a victim of our own choices in life. Be more mindful of your own actions and the actions of others, and bad things are much less likely to happen.

 

[EvilMegaCookie]

When a comment is 100% Victim Blaming 101 and tries to pretend it is not.

 

[Ashisu]

"victim blaming", that'd only be bad if we lived in a utopia where all bad things are random extraordinary events

 

[KyuMazu]

I knew it some woke shit will get triggered

 

[Saitoki]

@pensive_wolf

No dude. The ML was totally in the wrong and so are you. You are definitely victim blaming. You sound like an incel. Stop it. People can dress how they want. It's YOUR CHOICE how you respond to others.

It would be perfectly logical for her to be trusting of him since they were such close friends.
Had he done something to her that would be HIS FAULT for BETRAYING her trust.

This is why we don't (or aren't supposed to) blame victims of sexual assult for being assulted.

 

[Yousuckgoof]

That last panel