A lot of people seem to have trouble separating their own world view and priorities from the characters. Even calling characters idiots for not making a decision that would require superhuman levels of intelligence since it required info the reader had but the character did not have access to, or because it would make no sense in the culture the reader was in which was very different from the characters culture (the one that sticks out in me head from a different site was due to differences in crime levels with the reader in Brazil which has one of the what 10 worst crime rates in the world, and the character was in a nation at the other end of the chart but the reader calling the character an idiot for not making decisions like he was living in a Brazilian slum), or the reader just not understanding the priorities and motivations of the character and how an action they are insisting is beyond idiotic seeves those desires better then the one they are suggesting.From what we've seen so far, everyone in his life kicks him down just to keep their own heads above the surface. His entire life has consisted of people fucking him over. Yet you guys don't understand why he has trust issues? When she intentionally hides information, expecting him to just obey, he should just not act on what his entire life has taught him, and just trust this alien creature?