You all are talking like they are adults that are supposed to know what is right or wrong. Bruh, they are teenagers, they are emotional, they dont know how to properly convey what theu feel, they are sensitive, thats what being a teenager is all about. You are not supposed to have it all figured out. If you all can't even grasp that and keep on getting annoyed by both of them then are you sure you are reading and understanding it properly. Its completely normal for kids of their age to.not being able to properly open up and convey their feelings. Heck, its not easy in any point of your life. You are always afraid when talking about things like this .