"How dare a female lead not be super badass, gun toting, pure embodiment of female empowerment, who exclusively walks everywhere she goes on the backs of those pathetic snivelling men. How dare a female lead who's been treated lower than dirt her entire life be subservient, have self confidence issues and beg for literally any kind of warmth in her miserable life. How dare a female lead who's not only a Princess but a terribly mistreated one at that be physically weak and unable to fight her own battles?" This is how you clowns sound to the rest of us.
On a positive note I'm a sucker for this genre so I'll give it a shot