It's wrong to say, but if your family are loving to you...it takes a lot to just ignore their suffering and killing. Like it would be entirely understandable to feel resentful towards the leader and society that killed. Even if they had cause...
Also I get the reasoning of the FL, but I also really struggle with her self directed sacrifice. And also her dealing of the betrayal. It's one thing if the family had been exiled, but to have been executed?! That's just a WHOLE lot
