Are they into SM? What's he gonna still beat the shit outta you? Besides, it's just the beginning, he'll be "normal" soon enough, enjoy it while it's lasts :S
if you imagine girls think about guys as an MMO, you will soon start to understand what they want.
They want the grind, but they want to feel rewarded for it.
They want the Game end loot, but if theres no new game end loot in a couple of months they will go to another MMO.
They want that super rare, and expensive horse/bird/dragon ride, but once they get it, they will feel like they want something else.
They will have a favorite piece of armor, and will be ambivalent of weather to keep it for the looks or move on to the new one that is actually able to be used on raids.