Communication definitely needed in their relationship. You can't understand one another if you don't voice out your feelings. At least she tried to voice out her feelings a few times. Harsen should have said something about the "best choice" thing long ago. Long long ago. I don't know if their relationship can be repaired because Harsen doesn't seem to really willing to listen to her at this point. At least she has her son opening up to her. I know both have their share of problems, but I do sympathize more with the wife because she is going thru everything again while trying to change the future.